I had another birthday recently. No matter how much you try to escape them, pretend they don’t exist, birth your babies ON them in pure avoidance (as if I had that much control)... they still come around. For some reason, I was nervous about this one. Somehow I reason that the 5’s are a middle ground. The 6’s are a no-turning-back commitment . . . (again, as if I had that much control).
But, as is true most mornings, my Champion woke me with a song of hope in my heart and His presence in my spirit. So, I thought I'd share a few things I have learned (some for the UMPTEENTH time) since my last birthday. :)
- I can only control me. (And even that is questionable depending on your theology, but for the sake of argument...) The better part of my growing years were spent creating a persona full of savvy barriers to keep from being rejected, hurt or abandoned. Funny thing is, none of those defenses includes a mind or body control device to deal with the pesky reality that is "other people's choices." I cannot predict or control how other people live or treat me; I can only manage how I live and respond. Learning that (and REALLY LEARNING it, not simply knowing it) has been a painful and freeing experience.
- People and expectations will most assuredly disappoint. Still, to stop believing in either would be a wasted life. We must simply adjust our perspective glasses to a more realistic prescription.
- The greatest significance is found in insignificance... because no one thinks to look there.
- Cherishing every moment builds a beautiful future. Solely preparing for the future does little good as it cannot stand on moments which were never lived.
- My purpose here is still being written - evidenced by the fact that there is still breath entering and exiting my lungs. So I will live in gratitude to Him who loves me and has called me according to His purpose - and chase that definition as long as my heart continues beating.
So, whether you're next birthday is 16 or 91, I pray you are continuing to learn and grow and LIVE. Read Jeremiah 29:11-13 to be reminded that God is not finished with you yet, and listen to this song for some inspiration!!! :)
Link: TODAY by Kirk Franklin
